How to Deal With Microaggressions in the Workplace
Knowing how to deal with microaggressions in the workplace is the first step in changing a situation and improving employee wellbeing. And the change has to start on an individual and a business level.
As an Individual
Individuals can start by acknowledging any knowledge gaps and appreciating the likelihood they have unconscious biases they most likely grew up with. Starting from a position of humility can make it easier to handle situations where employees commit microaggressions at work when they didn’t intend to cause any fuss or harm.
Key ways staff can handle receiving a microaggression in the workplace:
- Stay calm and ask for clarification from the person who committed the microaggression, if you’re not sure of the intent behind the behavior.
- Ask for a private moment with them to express how the comment made you feel. Make sure it’s when you feel calm.
- Tell the other person why their behaviour was harmful or inappropriate and avoid any angry or personal attacks.
- Consider documenting the incident and speak to your HR or people team to understand the most appropriate action to take.
Key ways staff can react if they commit a microaggression in the workplace:
- Accept criticism, even if you were unaware, and avoid reacting in defense when challenged.
- Listen to feedback with empathy and understanding. Resist the urge to say you didn’t mean it or defend it as a joke as this can minimise the other person’s experience.
- Acknowledge the impact you’ve had and recognise the pain you caused to the other person.
- Be sincere in your apology but don’t expect immediate forgiveness. It’s best to learn from the experience and be more careful in the future. Some people will forgive if the effort is there to apologise and make amends.
- Ask questions to try to understand better how to avoid making the same mistake again.
As a Business
Organisations of all sizes should ensure their HR and people teams have an Equality, Diversity, and Inclusion (EDI) policy. Such policies should include a people-first approach to relationships, team building, and internal promotions. They should also promote the use of positive language to encourage a more harmonious and inclusive workplace.
Over a quarter of UK employers said the most effective way they could create more inclusive environments came from analysing language used in HR and communications policies. So make it a priority to use positive, inclusive language at all levels of your business. When you do, your staff teams and colleagues will mimic these positive words too.
Other ways that can help to reduce the impact of microaggressions at work include:
- Encourage EDI subgroups: Focus on the best ways to promote inclusivity for specific protected groups. For example, you could run a BAME group, a women’s group, and a neurodivergent group. Each one could allow individuals with these protected characteristics to air their grievances and shape future policy.
- Offer mentorships: Set up mentoring programmes for individuals to work with experienced professionals who know how to navigate these workplace challenges.
- Encourage support: Point staff towards supportive counselling services or remind them to take a mental health day to manage their feelings when experiencing microaggressions in the workplace.
- Educate staff: Consider highlighting the issues during an all-hands meeting or internal staff training session.